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Here you'll find a mix of educational pieces and my own musings on therapy, somatics, healing, and liberation.
While intended to inform, these writings are not meant to substitute the professional support provided in therapy and coaching sessions. Consider what you read an invitation to get curious about your experience and connect with others interested in doing the same.
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If You Have Alexithymia, Here’s How Somatic Therapy Can Help
You might think that in order to start somatic therapy, you already need to be able to describe what you’re feeling. But somatic therapy actually has all the tools you need to start addressing your alexithymia, no matter where you’re starting from.
Raina LaGrand
Aug 114 min read


Why You Always Feel So Stuck Even Though Everyone Else Sees You As Successful
If you’re someone who: Can’t motivate yourself to do the things that genuinely interest you Feels stuck in life even though you are outwardly very successful Feels chronically “tired, but wired.” ...you may be stuck in functional freeze. In this blog post, I’m going to talk about what functional freeze is, what causes it, and how to get out of it. What is Functional Freeze? Functional freeze is a nervous system stress response where you may feel stuck or numb on the inside, w
Raina LaGrand
Aug 45 min read


Why Somatic Therapy Doesn't Focus on What Happened During Your Week
What happens in a somatic therapy session? Why don't we just talk about what happened during the week?
Raina LaGrand
Jun 43 min read


Three Reasons Your Body Always Feels Tense
Chronic tension is a common complaint people bring into somatic therapy. It feels like you can never relax, like you’re walking around like a clenched fist. There are many reasons why this might be so. In somatic therapy, we can work to determine if there’s a psycho-somatic component. Here are three reasons you might constantly feel tense or tight due to psychological or emotional reasons.
Raina LaGrand
Jun 43 min read


Healing from Rejection Sensitivity with Somatic Therapy
Rejection sensitivity, or rejection sensitive dysphoria, is often an learned response that stems from real experiences of feeling unwanted. Experiential somatic therapy can help you find freedom from rejection sensitivity, feel more resilient, and finally make friends.
Raina LaGrand
Jun 36 min read


Somatic Therapy for Neurodivergent People
In this blog I explain how somatic therapy can help neurodivergent people recognize their sensory needs and advocate for themselves -- even if it's currently difficult to identify feelings.
Raina LaGrand
Mar 194 min read


How Somatic Therapy Can Help You Deal With Chronic Pain
How somatic therapy can help you reduce chronic pain, deal with pain flares, and grieve a life that's changed.
Raina LaGrand
Jan 24 min read


How somatic therapy can help you heal from borderline personality disorder
Somatic therapy can help you heal from borderline personality disorder, complex PTSD, and attachment trauma.
Raina LaGrand
Dec 9, 20254 min read


The Neurobiology of Somatic Therapy for Attachment Trauma, Part 2: Memory Reconsolidation
How somatic therapy helps clients to rewrite core beliefs about ones self and the world and build a sense of self-trust in your ability to feel and do things that have historically felt too overwhelming
Raina LaGrand
Nov 11, 20254 min read


The Neurobiology of Somatic Therapy for Attachment Trauma, Part 1: Witnessing Mind
The first and most important task of somatic psychotherapy, or any experiential method, is to develop an ability to metaphorically step back and notice your experience. This is called Dual Awareness.
Raina LaGrand
Oct 20, 20253 min read


There are two kinds of people pleasers, which are you and how can somatic therapy help?
Two different ways the nervous system shapes people pleasing.
Raina LaGrand
Sep 12, 20254 min read


You’ve been in therapy for years…why isn’t it working and how can somatic therapy help?
You’ve been in therapy for years…why isn’t it working? Here are four reasons why therapy might not be working for you, and how somatic therapy can help.
Raina LaGrand
Sep 12, 20255 min read


Implicit Memory and Attachment: Why Relationships Feel the Way They Do
Implicit memory influences how we move, respond, and relate to others. It’s not just about what happened to you, but how your body learned to respond to connection. . They are emotional learnings—ways your nervous system adapted to stay safe.
Raina LaGrand
May 5, 20254 min read


Why Relationships Can Be Hard AF – Here's How to Help Your Nervous System Adapt
Relationships can be hard if we don't get enough co-regulation as kids. But our nervous systems are adaptable. The Safe and Sound Protocol can help.
Raina LaGrand
Apr 21, 20256 min read


The Connection Between Complex Trauma and Chronic Pain
Pain is a dynamic issue that can coincide with chronic stress and unresolved trauma.
Raina LaGrand
Mar 18, 20257 min read


How Touch Heals Trauma, Pain, and More
Why uses touch in psychotherapy? This blog explores uses of touch and the neural basis of healing touch.
Raina LaGrand
Jan 14, 20257 min read


Somatic Trauma Therapy: What Is It
What is somatic therapy? What is trauma therapy? How can they help you?
Raina LaGrand
Jan 14, 20256 min read


Your Body & Your Relationships
Somatics and attachment
Raina LaGrand
Oct 30, 20244 min read


How Somatics and Having a Personal Embodiment Practice Can Help You Build Community as a Mixed Person, Part Two
Dual awareness, Attunement and Neuroception
Raina LaGrand
Apr 1, 20245 min read


How Somatics Can Help You Build Community As A Mixed Person, Part One
Here are a few ways developing a personal embodiment practice(s) can help you build community as a mixed person.
Raina LaGrand
Mar 25, 20244 min read
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